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Filed under: Uncategorized, Knitting, Follow the Flock — Kristi at 8:17 am on Monday, May 1, 2006

I know I mentioned last week that I would be giving away some more knitting patterns to those who helped me come up with category titles for the new blog. I will do that, though not today. I’m going to interrupt the blog schedule for the important blogging event – Blog Against Disablism.

Blogging Against Disablism Day

The moment I read about this at Emma & Co I thought I should participate. I hemmed and hawed and finally did sign up. Now, I’ve been writing and re-writing posts all night in my head rather than sleeping. I’ve struggled with what to write about. Now this morning I’ve circled through some of the other 100+ blogs participating in this event today in hopes that seeing the topics others are choosing to blog about today would help me better formulate my post. Unfortunately, I’m still as scattered in my thoughts as I was when I first hit the “Post Comment” button to sign up.

I’ll start by saying that I would guess most of you know several people with some form of disability – a mental disorder, a physical handicap, a learning disability etc. I know several from each of those categories and probably fall into two of them myself, though both are probably pretty mild in comparison to many others. It is important to be aware of disabilities; however, disabilities do not make a person less of a person than non-disabled person. We all have things we excel at and things we don’t, regardless.

As I’ve mentioned before, my mother is blind. So, my biggest experience with disablism is as a spectator as a daughter of a blind woman. There are so many rants I could get into here, though if you are a regular reader of blogs from disabled people or their families I’m sure you’ve heard most of them. So, I will list a few talking points of which I won’t get into (too much), but may perhaps serve as some food for thought…

  • Products are getting sleeker and more complex. Items we use daily such as microwaves, ovens, washing machines and dryers, remote controls, cell photos and other items are filled with buttons that often don’t have edges or have no buttons that differ from others as a point of reference for someone having to operate them by touch alone. Items that are “designed” for the visual impaired will usually carry price tags of 3-10 times the standard price when there is no reason for mainstream version to be inoperable for the visually impaired.
  • While I understand the need to control spam comments, this word verification that is popping everywhere from comments on blogs to completing registration at web sites is now also cutting off vast majorities of the Internet to those who are visually impaired as their screen reading software cannot read graphics, especially those that sighted people can barely read themselves.
  • Some movie production companies are recording a second audio track often referred to as “Descriptive Video” and limited theaters around the US and the world offer devices similar to those for the hearding impaired that then play this audio track to the visually impaired so they can get the most out of a movie without having to have someone with them to describe the video and disturb other movie goers around them. This is great, except for the most part only major metropolitan areas offer this service. So, the movie studios have gone to the expense of engineering this track, why then do very rarely find such a track on DVDs? Even non-visually impaired people can benefit from it as non-hearing impaired people benefit from the use of closed captioning. You can knit and craft to a movie without worries of missing some vital information that was present only visually as one example.
  • Also, many PBS and TCM programs as well as more and more local programs are being audio described (access is through the use of SAP), yet the cable, sattelite, and UHF companies are not required to transmit it so it is often inaccessible to the visually impaired even though it exists and the effort and expense has been expended to create the audio.
  • People feel that just because you (or someone with you as in my case) has a companion animal that they may bother you in the middle of a meal or a conversation and demand to pet them or tell you the stories of every pet they’ve ever had. Fortunately, people are learning that working animals are not to be pet and at least ask, but if we’ve just been served our food or we appear to be in the middle of a conversation, leave us alone!

To end on a bit more positive note, my mom is one of the best people I know. She goes with the flow and adjusts to her situation like I can only dream of. At the age of about 33 she first learned how to use a computer with the aid of special software to read the screen to her. She then went on to school and got an AS degree with a 4.0 GPA, beating me on every test of the classes we took together (she started by getting me early enrollment having me be her note taker, then the school started lining up note takers for her, but we still took several classes together). She now does all the scheduling for the farm employees and at least the first level of interviewing and often gets called in to do the firing as well (my dad isn’t very authoritative or much of a people person). She also does billing for a few small business owners. She is a wonderful cook and baker and taught me quite well. She has a great sense of color despite the fact that she can no longer see them. She is giving and caring and helpful.

Most importantly, for this blog anyway, she knits beautifully!

Mom's Knit Afghan for Zoe

Pattern: Garter Stitch Feather and Fan, over 220 sts (click on photo below for a closer look at the stitch pattern)
Yarn: Plymouth Encore Colorspun Worsted (7124)
Needles: US 9, Addi Turbo
Dimension: 36″ X 65″
Process Dates: Late July 2005 - Mid April 2006 (with several months worth of breaks awaiting some mistake fixing by my grandmother)
Recipient: Zoe in TX

Notes: I used the K2, * pass sts back to left needle, K2tog tbl, K1; bind off method on it and also woven in the ends for her.

A closer look at the stitch pattern used in Zoe's afghan.

11 Comments »

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Comment by Cathy

May 1, 2006 @ 8:51 am

very nicely said.

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Comment by Cindy

May 1, 2006 @ 10:07 am

As it is so often in our world, those who do not fit the “norm” are excluded exponentially. My disabled friends are my heros and I tell them that all the time. We have often discussed the fact that we are all “disabled”. It’s just that the label sticks only to those on which it shows. Don’t ever worry about putting down your feelings. They may be raw, but they are no less powerful to the reader than they are to the writer.

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Comment by Sylvia

May 1, 2006 @ 10:13 am

Yes!!! My latest thing is when I wear an eye patch everyone speaks pirate to me. Cute once, but I’m not wearing the thing for fun and would rather not have everyone point it out, you know?

OTOH, at the bus stop the other day a teenage gang member politely asked a woman what time it was and she pressed a button on her watch and waved her hand toward him. It read off the time and he looked at her again and said, “Oh, you’re blind. That’s a neat watch. Is it hard to use your stick when you walk?” The three of us ended up having an interesting conversation about losing vision. At one point the woman said to the young man, “I can’t see you, but I can hear your voice and you sound real calm so I know I am safe talking to you.” I’m glad, frankly, she couldn’t see what he was wearing because she would have been scared. He really melted and was a sweetheart because she could *see* beneath his facade.

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Comment by Snow

May 1, 2006 @ 10:30 am

Beautifully said, Kristi. I’ve met your mom and she’s a joy to be around. I doubt I’d be as positive in the same situation. Thanks for writing this.

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Comment by Melissa

May 1, 2006 @ 11:23 am

Great post. And in honor of this post (as soon as I can figure out how), I am turning off my word verification to my blog. Not that this will make some world shattering difference, but hey, it may help someone.
My grandfather is in a wheelchair and I didn’t notice until I took him to McDonald’s for breakfast with the “old men committee” or to the mall shopping with us just how disability unfriendly the world is. I had to leave him outside of stores because he couldn’t fit in with his wheelchair. It totally sucks that stores don’t have to abide by rules to help the handicapped.
This weekend (dang I’m rambling) I saw a squad of cheerleaders on the cheerleading competition on ESPN that was comprised totally of challenged kids in some way or other. It was great. All of the other squads cheered so loudly for them that it was just heartwarming. I honestly feel that some people are “special” to bring out the good in others.

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Comment by Carole

May 1, 2006 @ 12:41 pm

Thanks for explaining about things we take for granted that are difficult for a sight impaired person. Sometimes awareness is the start of change.

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Comment by Rebekah

May 1, 2006 @ 3:43 pm

Thank you for that reminder. My closest friend’s niece is blind and deaf. She has the most phenomenal sense of humor and sense of self of any human I know. she went blind and deaf slowly after birth, but by the time she was a pre-teen she was both completely blind and deaf. She is one of the most remarkable human beings I’ve ever had a chance to know, and am happy that I have had a chance to know her.

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Comment by Chris

May 1, 2006 @ 4:33 pm

Thanks for expanding my perceptions… and your mom knits beautifully!!

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Comment by susoolu

May 1, 2006 @ 6:54 pm

Yes, very well said. Thank you. Your mum sounds like an absolute blast of fun.

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Comment by vatergrrl

May 2, 2006 @ 9:05 am

Darn straight, Kristi! Even though I’m a proud and occasionally loud crip(ple), your post reminded me of the extent to which I don’t always think about the limits of universal access and “universal” design. Much more I could say (my academic/life’s work is in disability studies), but I’ll just say a “heck, yeah!” and a teensy “pi$$ on pity — I don’t live to inspire the normates” if it’s not too inflamatory.

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Comment by Lizzy B

May 3, 2006 @ 7:12 am

Wow! Your Mom’s Knitting is Gorgeous! I can’t knit without looking at the stitches, and she does LACE without even being able to see them! I’m awed. You’re so right about the negative aspects of all that “Streamlining”…

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